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Is Phone Sex Cheating?

cheatingIt is a conversation I have had for many a years and a topic I have written about in many of my websites. Well it seems that I am not the only one to have asked this question. Indeed, in her article:

Ask Amy: He says phone sex is part of being a guy (http://www.mercurynews.com/bay-area-living/ci_26500193/ask-amy-habit-puts-marriage-at-risk) a case is made that the habits or a husband who says he receives erotic massages as well as calling phone sex line is just part and parcel of… “being a man”.

The author goes the extra mile to define what does constitute cheating, what passes for an insult to “not only to you but to guys in general. Most married guys don’t do this, but the ones who do want to normalize it.”

She makes the case that if a person, the husband in this case, escalates his sexual behavior by seeking interactive sexual interaction with others, then he is definitely cheating and the wife should a) have a frank chat with him and b) get tested for STD.… [READ THE REST...]