Ask Amy: He says phone sex is part of being a guy (http://www.mercurynews.com/bay-area-living/ci_26500193/ask-amy-habit-puts-marriage-at-risk) a case is made that the habits or a husband who says he receives erotic massages as well as calling phone sex line is just part and parcel of… “being a man”.

The author goes the extra mile to define what does constitute cheating, what passes for an insult to “not only to you but to guys in general. Most married guys don’t do this, but the ones who do want to normalize it.”

She makes the case that if a person, the husband in this case, escalates his sexual behavior by seeking interactive sexual interaction with others, then he is definitely cheating and the wife should a) have a frank chat with him and b) get tested for STD.

It reminds me of the bully who constantly harasses a class mate until the latter decides to take karate lessons so that he may be able to defend himself. And then when said bully tries it again, this time the tables are turned and it is the original bully who suffers a beating of his own. Now imagine the scene at the the principal’s office… where, the principal, upon hearing the complains of said bully, decides to punish the Karate kid.

Now I am not comparing the wife to the bully, but what I am saying is that most of the time, the actions we take do not come out of a bubble. There is a reason why we do things. If the bully hadn’t beaten the kid in the first place, he would never have received the beating he deserved.

If the wife had given the husband the sexual attention he needs, he might not have decided to stray.

Did he cheat? Yes? Would he have cheated if his wife had given him “what he needed”? Probably not.

I can already hear the feminists out there coming out in force that nothing justifies cheating and trust me, I understand and sympathies with these views and the plight of the wife. However, being in the business I am in, and dealing with a multitude of men who are just like the husband in question, having gotten to know them .. intimately.. there is one thing I know for sure:

These guys are not getting it at home..

And in most case that’s why they call my phone sex line.

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You’re in the middle of  a conversation, your caller is masturbating happily listening to the sound of your voice and as the call progresses, you introduce new scenarios, first bits of information to test the water, and if the fish bites, more.

A successful phone sex girl knows that the most important tool she has is the ability to listen to her caller.  That may not sound easy to a beginner who is busy stroking his cock but as you learn your trade and you start embracing the true value of leading a caller to the path of orgasm, you realize that even if the caller doesn’t say much, his silences, sights and other such manifestations speak volume, if you can hear them.

And so it was the other night, my caller was listening to one of my fantasies when in the middle of the call, I decided to have some fun.  I was describing the joy of anal sex to him when as if by accident I mentioned that my boyfriend had finally had anal sex but only this time if was another man that fucked him.

Throughout the conversation, my caller had remained silent, content to grunt from time to time, but as soon as I mentioned the fact that my boyfriend had been fucked in the ass by another man, his silence stopped.

“What do you mean?” He said.  As if he hadn’t heard.  But roleplay is one of the things that gets me off the fastest and I was only too happy to elaborate. And roleplay phone sex is exactly where we, as Karen Nite Flirts excel.

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In many ways it is.  Your dick feels hard as hell in your hand and you are just dying to get that extra push to get you blowing all over the place.  Unless you have a combination of the nastiest bitch on the block with the body from heaven, an attitude from hell and a willingness to fuck you for the sake of sexual nirvana, chances are your dick is going to continue to feel all lonely in your hand… unless..

Unless you phone for sex that is.  Call and you shall come sounds right and you are probably in the ballpark, right? Well Yes and No.

Here are 5 simple steps  callers can take to make sure they experience a truly wondrous phone affair.

1. A great phone sex conversation always starts by  making sure you’ve got the right person for the job to talk to.  Sounds like an exert of any company’s rules of business, and it does if only in reverse.  By far the biggest mistake I see my callers make, (particularly when they call us for the first time) is not telling us what they want to talk about before we put them through to an operator.  You see, a conversation always start with a chat with one of our dispatch ladies who besides making sure the caller is over 18 years  of age and taking down his/her payment information is also the one who selects whom to put that caller through.  If you do not tell the dispatcher what you want to talk about, or the type of woman you want to talk to, then she might connect you to someone she might not have chosen for you in the first place, had she known of your desires in the first place.  So prey tell what it is that turns you on and don’t be shy baby!  You may think your fantasy is unique, and it may very well be, but it is certainly not one which would offend or otherwise disturb any of us.

2. Phone sex is all about suggestion, perception and role play.  Combine all three together and you’ve got the recipe for an extraordinary good time.  So make sure you get involved in the conversation.  Press a particular point of interest if you are attracted to the subject or simply move on to a different topic.  I once had a conversation with a caller who wanted to experience strap on sex.  This caller (who still calls after 10 years) had told the dispatch what he wanted and the call was put through to me since I enjoy domination calls.  During the conversation, as I was exploring the subject in great details my caller asked me to describe how real my strapon was compared to the real thing. It was his way to tell me that he wanted to explore the possibility of finding out what a real dick tasted like and I dare say, the rest of the call was so exciting to the both of us that we sometimes talk about it to this day.

3.  The power of a sexy voice is perhaps the most potent force in phone sex and just like in any relationship sometimes two people can be an immediate match and sometimes they are not.  You do not have to force yourself through a phone session if you do not like the sound of the operator.  Again, be honest about your feeling, and tell the operator as soon as you find out that she’s not “pressing the right button” for you.  You will then be given an opportunity to be transferred to someone else.  Remember that we will do anything and everything to make your experience with us as memorable as it can be.

4. If you are talking about a more “challenging” fetish, set some rules before you start so that the both of you know what line not to cross.

5. Be a charming, considerate even funny caller.  You’d be amazed at how much we are suckers for a good compliment and even more amazed at the reactions you will be getting from your girl.

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